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What is a Mediated Divorce?

A mediated divorce in Massachusetts is a voluntary process where a neutral third party, called a mediator, helps spouses work through and resolve the issues related to their divorce. These issues can include, such as property division, child custody, parenting time, alimony, and child support, without going to court to fight it out. 

The mediator doesn’t make decisions for the couple but guides productive conversations so they can reach a mutual agreement.  Once an agreement is reached, the terms are put into writing, and the couple can then file for a 1A uncontested divorce using the mediation agreement. This approach works best when both spouses are willing to communicate openly and work toward a fair resolution.

What is a Collaborative Divorce?

A collaborative divorce in MA is a legal process in which both spouses agree to work together—outside of court, to resolve the issues involved in their divorce respectfully and cooperatively.

Each spouse is represented by their own specially trained collaborative attorney, and the process may involve other neutral professionals, such as financial advisors or child specialists, to help reach a fair and informed agreement

If either spouse later decides to go to court, the collaborative attorneys must withdraw, and the spouses must hire new lawyers. This creates a strong incentive to stay at the table and find common ground.

Collaborative divorce can be a more private, peaceful, and personalized alternative to litigation, especially for couples who want to preserve a cooperative relationship moving forward.

What is Contested Divorce?

A collaborative divorce in MA is a legal process in which both spouses agree to work together—outside of court, to resolve the issues involved in their divorce respectfully and cooperatively.

Each spouse is represented by their own specially trained collaborative attorney, and the process may involve other neutral professionals, such as financial advisors or child specialists, to help reach a fair and informed agreement

If either spouse later decides to go to court, the collaborative attorneys must withdraw, and the spouses must hire new lawyers. This creates a strong incentive to stay at the table and find common ground.

Collaborative divorce can be a more private, peaceful, and personalized alternative to litigation, especially for couples who want to preserve a cooperative relationship moving forward.

What is a Mediated Divorce?

An uncontested divorce starts when both people agree on everything they file. This involved arrangements such as

Uncontested cases typically involve less formal gatherings of financial records and fewer court appearances. It involves lower legal expenditures and allows couples to maintain direct control over property settlements and parenting plans.

Can a divorce shift from contested to uncontested?

If a divorce begins as contested, where spouses disagree on custody, asset valuation or any other concerns, they may start to exchange information and consult advisors. This can sometimes be a solution and resolve these disagreements, reaching a mutual agreement.

This type of divorce is when the parties agree that the marriage is broken and want the Court to effectuate the divorce legally. There are two types of ‘no-fault’ divorce:

What is a 1A divorce in Massachusetts?

‘1A’: Uncontested divorce

Suppose the parties agree that the marriage has irretrievably broken down and have a written agreement that decides how the tangential issues outlined above will be resolved. In that case, their Attorney can file a 1A Divorce. This can include the following:

What is a 1B divorce in Massachusetts?

‘1B’: Contested divorce

If both spouses believe that their marriage has ended but do not agree on the following:
This results in a contested no-fault divorce. This can be changed if you and your spouse decide to agree on filing, by requesting to change the divorce complaint from a 1B to a 1A divorce

What are the grounds for divorce in Massachusetts?

Fault grounds

There are 7 ‘fault’ grounds for reason; this process can take longer and have a more expensive outcome than a no-fault divorce. ‘Fault’ grounds refer to one person being considered at fault in the marriage, causing it to end. The seven include:

  1. Adultery
  2. Desertion
  3. Gross and confirmed habits of intoxication
  4. Cruel and abusive treatment
  5. Non-support
  6. Impotency
  7. A prison sentence of 5 or more years

This type of divorce is when the parties agree that the marriage is broken and want the Court to effectuate the divorce legally. There are two types of ‘no-fault’ divorce:

  • ‘1A’: Uncontested divorce 
  • ‘1B’: Contested  divorce

What are the grounds for divorce in Massachusetts?

There are four different types of Alimony in Divorce, and each kind of alimony has rules about the following:
The length of marriage applies

  • How long can it last
  • What can end it
  • If it can be changed

1. General Alimony

‘General term’ alimony is for a spouse who needs alimony to meet their financial needs.
The length of time general term alimony can last is called ‘duration’, which depends on the length of the marriage. Shorter marriages typically result in shorter alimony periods, while longer marriages may lead to longer support obligations. This can also include

  • Between 5 to 10 years
  • Between 10 to 15 years
  • Between 15 to 20 years
  • Longer than 20 years

How can a general Alimony end?:

The spouse receiving the alimony remarries
Either spouse dies
The spouse paying alimony reaches “full retirement age”

A general term, alimony, can be reduced or suspended if the paying spouse can show that the receiving spouse has ‘cohabited’ with another person.

2. Rehabilitative Alimony

This is temporary support intended to help a spouse become financially self-sufficient. A rehabilitative alimony can be ordered by the judge for any length of marriage and can last for up to 5 years.

The following can cause a rehabilitative alimony to end automatically:

The spouse receiving the alimony remarries
Either spouse dies
A specific event happens

3. Can rehabilitative alimony be changed?

The judge can change or extend the order if the following are met:

Something unexpected happens that stops the spouse who gets alimony from becoming self-supporting
The spouse who received alimony has tried to become self-supporting
The spouse who pays alimony can pay it, and it is not too hard on them to do so

4. Reimbursement Alimony

This type of alimony is used in short-term marriages (less than 5 years) and compensates one spouse for expenses they helped cover during marriage, such as the other spouse’s education or job training. This can last for any length of time.

The following can cause Reimbursement alimony to end if:

  • When the spouse gets it dies
  • On the date, the judge ordered it to end

The judge can not change the order, and neither spouse is allowed to ask the court to change it.

Transitional Alimony

Transition alimony is available in short-term marriages (no more than 5 years), which is meant to help a spouse adjust to a new lifestyle or location after the divorce. The judge can order this where the length of the marriage is 5 years or less, and it can last up to 3 years.

The following can cause transitional alimony to end if:

  • When the spouse who gets it dies
  • On the date, the judge ordered it to end

A transitional alimony can not be modified, extended or replaced with another kind of alimony by the judge.

What are modifications?
In the context of divorce in Massachusetts, modifications refer to legal changes made to an existing divorce agreement or court order after the divorce is finalized. To request a modification, the person asking for the change must show that there has been a significant change in circumstances since the original order was made, such as a job loss, a change in income, a move, or a change in the child’s needs. You need A collection of court forms used to request to modify child support and custody.
The grounds of complaint is where one party is not following a court order that was issued as part of the divorce. This can include failing to pay child support or alimony, not following the parenting schedule, or refusing to comply with a custody arrangement.

Child custody

Child custody in Massachusetts refers to the physical and legal care of a child following a divorce or separation. There are four types of custody arrangements, and parents can agree on a plan that works best for their family, as long as it supports the child’s best interests

1. Sole legal custody
One parent has the rights and responsibilities to make major decisions about the child, including ones about education, medical care, religion, and emotional development.

2. Shared legal custody
Both parents share the responsibility and decision-making power for these important areas.

3. Sole physical custody
The child primarily lives with one parent, while the other usually has scheduled parenting time, unless the court finds visitation isn’t in the child’s best interest.

4. Shared physical custody
The child splits time living with both parents, allowing for frequent and meaningful contact with each parent.

Parenting time lets a parent who doesn’t have primary physical custody spend time with or visit their child. The parents’ court-approved agreement says where the visits will happen and for how long, and whether or not the visits need to be supervised by another adult. If no date is agreed on, the court will decide.

In Massachusetts, prenuptial and postnuptial agreements are legal contracts that outline how a couple’s assets, debts, and other financial matters will be handled in the event of a divorce or death.

A prenuptial agreement (or “prenup”) is made before the couple gets married. It can address things like property division, alimony, and protection of family inheritances or business interests. Prenups are especially helpful when one or both parties have significant assets or debts before the marriage.

A postnuptial agreement (or “postnup”) is similar, but it’s signed after the couple is already married. It can be used to update financial arrangements or set clear expectations if circumstances change during the marriage, such as one spouse leaving the workforce or inheriting money.

Both types of agreements must be fair, signed voluntarily, and based on full financial disclosure from both spouses. While Massachusetts courts do enforce these agreements, they will review them closely, especially postnuptial ones, to ensure that they are not one-sided or made under pressure.

If you are recently or soon to be divorced and considering moving out of state, there are a couple of things you should take into account. In Massachusetts, the party filing for the divorce must have lived here for one year. You may file in the county where you live or where you and your spouse last lived together. If you are looking to get divorced and both parties are not currently living in Massachusetts, this can add a layer of complexity in getting a Massachusetts court to hear your case. Additionally, certain issues during or after a divorce can be impacted by parties moving (i.e., custody of the children, marital property, restraining orders, etc.). In some cases, a party may need to ask or notify the Court of relocations that could impact a Court Order.
Determining how to divide your assets without court intervention is how you can get the best outcome. If you and your spouse cannot agree on property division, the judge will need to intervene and issue a decision.

Marital assets:

All the property, money, and belongings that either spouse acquired during the marriage, regardless of whose name is on the title or account. This can include things like the family home, cars, bank accounts, retirement savings, businesses, and even debts.
Assets that were owned before the marriage, inherited, or received as gifts may be considered separate property – but in some cases, even these can be included in the division if they were mixed with marital assets or used during the marriage.

Separate property:

Any assets spouses acquired before the marriage. Unlike marital property, separate property is not subject to property division during a divorce.

This is often done in an attempt to avoid having those assets divided as part of the marital estate. Commonly concealed assets include cash in undisclosed bank accounts, investments in stocks or bonds, ownership of real estate not disclosed in financial statements, and diverted business income If the court finds that one spouse intentionally hid assets, it can impose penalties and may award a larger share of the marital property to the other spouse as a result. Full and honest financial disclosure is required in all MA divorce cases.

A witness who is qualified as an expert by knowledge, skill, experience, training, or education may testify in the form of an opinion or otherwise if

  1. The expert’s scientific, technical or other specialized knowledge that will help understand evidence or to determine a fact in issue
  2. Testimony is based on sufficient facts or data
  3. Testimony is the product of reliable principles and methods
  4. The export has reliably applied the principles and methods to the facts of the case

Common expert witnesses in divorce cases include financial experts (like forensic accountants or business appraisers), mental health professionals (such as psychologists who conduct custody evaluations), and real estate appraisers.